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People herd together with those that share direct interests. All my married friends dropped off and found new married people with kids when they had kids. A third wheel does not work. They obsessed about babies and hardships and found connection to only those going thru the exact same trials. All my efforts to maintain old friendships came to nothing. Most people did not stay in the same house their entire childhood so childhood friends were not available. I have had to learn how to live with being a loner. It can be done as is done by most bosses and scholars whose interests are not wide spread. God help them if their intellectual views are not mainstream. Church is often the only outlet.
I think the problem is due to not living in communal space & a lack of ceremonies on the phases of life. There needs to be communal acknowledgement when a person reaches adulthood were peer pressure is brought to bear on parents to not treat their kids as children. We need social match makers not only for mates but communal activity friends to make sure everyone has a part in communal life and can participate at any level of involvement they enjoy. We have lost a lot in not barn building. Some activities need to be totally social and required. Everybody is interested in you when you are growing up.